This is my first post but been lurking for some time. We are nearly there with hopefully getting a dx of ASD for DS, although I'm not really sure if it will be ASD / SPD or both.
I know there will be no magic answers after dx, and as he struggles more with life I'm torn between understanding more about his funny little world and also feeling like I just can't cope with the daily battles, struggles and meltdowns, and the effects this is having on the whole family including other DC.
Sometimes I get it right. Mostly I feel like I'm wading through treacle. This morning was a disaster. New school shoes. Need I say more! We were late for school once again. I was shouting once again and DS was in full scale meltdown once again. I left him at school with him shouting that he hated me and me shouting that it was all his fault . Younger DC almost in tears and another drive home from the school run with me in tears.
How do you cope with this every day? I know there are so many worse things out there and I am blessed to have well and healthy DC's, but I'm running out of reserves. I'm working hard on understanding how life is for DS and looking for strategies to help him, but could really do with some strategies to help me, so that I can feel a bit more on top of life right now.
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Let him down once again this morning - how do you cope?!
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PeculiarUrchins · 25/02/2014 09:39
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