Am totally at my wits end. I am a single parent to ds 7 and dd 5. Ds shows signs of Adhd dyspraxia OCD and Aspergers and tonight i am broken.
We've spent 2 years trying to get ds seen by a paed but are still at the referral stage. We have been seen by Fast but they can't help us and so we are back to waiting for a camhs referral.
Ds has "lost it" tonight. He thinks nobody likes him, everyone says he plays boring games and he is so lonely he wants to just hide forever. He screamed the house down, he sobbed, he smashed plates and threw the magnets off the fridge.
All i could do was hold him. I have no idea how to remedy this. I am desperately sad for him. He does play boring, repetitive games but he is so desperate to be liked, he will do anything anyone asks of him even if he finds it boring. However, he then expects the same level of cooperation when he choses a game and just can't understand why other kids don't want to quote Octonauts word for word and be shouted at if they get it wrong or play aeroplanes and zoom around the playground aged 7-8. It doesn't help that he's August birthday so in Y3 but in a mixed class of Y3 and Y4 so some of his class mates turned 9 in September.
I don't know why i'm writing this, I just feel as helpless helping him as he feela
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bananananacoconuts · 16/02/2014 22:16
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