My son is 2 yrs 10 months. Throughout the first 18 months or so of his life, we had concerns about his development. He was slow to meet milestones like rolling over, sitting and he was on the slow side to develop any speech. All this to the extent that we saw a developmental paed and SALT, and had concerns about ASD. However, he had a massive leap in development from 18 months to 2 - his speech became excellent, he was very communicative and affectionate with us (having not been so previously). So we began to think that he had caught up and we had worried needlessly.
However, it is now becoming apparent that he has some social difficulties interacting with other children. He has been attending nursery since September and they have indicated that he needs support to join in with the other children. This is also something that I have noticed myself with playdates etc. He is interested in other children, chats to me about things they have done and will interact with them if prompted but when I see him with other children he definitely seems different and not quite on their level.
He is also behind with gross motor skills such as catching/throwing a ball and things like using a scooter/tricycle. He hates swings and always has done. He is also quite moody, whiny and hard work - thing seem to 'throw him off keel' quite easily.
So - I am now wondering again about dyspraxia and/or ASD.
However, he doesn't fully fit either category because:
He has good imaginative play and role play. He also seems to understand emotion - eg. says things like 'if I give x to the baby that will make her happy'
He doesn't mind change in routine.
He doesn't have any particular 'special interest'/'obsession'.
Do these things mean it's not ASD?
He's good at self-care skills - dressing/undressing/feeding and his fine motor seems fine. Do these things mean it's not dyspraxia?
I just want to find a way to help him as he just seems different from other children. I would be so grateful for any thoughts you have - sorry it's so long.
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Nearly 3 year old - concerns re. social interaction, some gross motor and sensory issue
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