So today was the day of our CAF, or FSP or whatever the heck they call it now. It's a plague of acronyms in our house at the moment.
I was disheartened after learning that two of our most supportive people would not be able to attend - one because she was not told the time when the invitation was sent out. It took a text to me 2 days ago to establish that she already had plans for that time. The other was not allowed to attend by her manager as we are not actively being supported by them at the current time. I believe this is mostly a borders issue as our healthcare (and therefore health visiting team) come from the neighbouring county. However she said she had sent a report in. This was not at the meeting this morning and the chair was unaware of it.
So dh and I weren't exactly counting on a very positive meeting. Two from the Hv team and two from the preschool ds attends.
In the end it went better than we thought Although preschool said they don't see the behaviour we described (I had to tell ds off the other day for shaking a boy around the head at collection time!), there were things that they've noticed which they simply haven't put into the context of our situation. So it was encouraging and they will be keeping a very close eye on him to be able to answer future questions more accurately. At least they are willing to work with us. We are all interested to see what will happen when his younger siblings join him in preschool after Easter.
We got home to dh's valentines roses for me. And then the postie brought a letter with his salt appointment. Woo hoo. So in the next 6 weeks we have specialist HV, OT and SALT appointments. And ds is having ore and more bad times at home so I'm making mind jars while I type this, waiting for the glitter to settle so I can work out how long they take - currently 26 minutes and counting on this one. Worth it for the calm though. He will sit on his Cushion, all snuggled up in his safe space and watch it settle for ages. So a longer one can only be beneficial.
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Stupidly giggly after feeling quite disheartened last night!
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MiniSoksMakeHardWork · 13/02/2014 21:34
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