Hi, I have a four year old son who has a severe speech delay.
He has been assessed for ASD and this is inconclusive, having a re-assessment this year.
When reading about the symptoms of verbal dyspraxia, I thought "Oh my goodness, it sounds like my son". I mentioned this to my speech therapist but she didn't think he had it or it is hard to assess as my son has limited language.
However, a specialist speech therapy...she's is not specialised in speech impairments...but she's a specialist in something. Anyway, the specialist was brought over to see if the lack of speech is because my son may have verbal dyspraxia. She then told me it was hard to see, but said I should concentrate on the autism. As kids with verbal dyspraxia don't have delays in attention and listening, play and social interaction skills. Just speech. But, when reading some of the comments from mothers whose kids have verbal dyspraxia...they did have delays around these areas that I talked about. Maybe I'm wrong.
The specialist also said that she could see things in my son which is suggestive of autism but see things that are not. So after seeing my son on that one session of speech therapy..she thinks that his issues could be because he has autism.
This is so confusing..every time the professionals see my son for the first time..they think "ok..he may likely have autism"... but when the spend time with my son, or see him once every week for 6 months..their opinion changes.
Here is a list of symptoms of my son, if you think he has an overall issue effected if he does have autism..or could this be because of speech:
- Has good functional play skills, quite good imaginary play skills..though imaginary play is delayed as it needs to develop further.
- Has good joint attention skills
- Eats a wide range of food..though takes him about 4 days to like a new food.
- Uses non- verbal communication to communicate..has over 30 made up signs/ gestures to communicate.
- Says about 15 words... only says two of the words correctly.
- Seems to interact with me a lot better than to other people.
- Even though he has good eye contact..this again is not consistent with other people..but with me is ok.
- Is always asking me to play with him, asking for help.
- Not sure about road danger..but he would not go near things that are hot
10. Stims when excited, angry
11. Does not sit down in carport time, unless he likes the activity
12. wanders
13. Understands way more than he can speak
14. Gropes mouth when attempting to speak
15. Is very good at imitating actions not words.
16. Babbles a lot, like he having a conversation with me..or if he is telling me something.
17. Shows me things that he is interested in.
18. A little bit repetitive in his play
19. Has no routine, obsessions issues
20. Likes a variety of toys.
21. Seems to go from one toy to the next..sometimes he would make a mess
22. Communicates using expressions... sounds gestures i.e. him feeling me he wants to play with the rocket is...hand up in the air, swivelling around while he makes rocket launch noise.
23.Does have stranger danger also if I'm out of sight he would follow me
24. Come to me if his hurt or if I'm sad.
25. If there is an argument in the house, he will jolt up upstairs to where the argument is...he is quite weird with his reaction..he would sometimes act scared...laugh..or cling onto the person who is getting attacked int he argument.
26. Has good interaction with a stranger...but takes him a while to feel comfortable with the person.
27. Makes noises when playing so if blocks fall down..he would say "oooooooh wooaah".
28. Has good self care skills..toilet trained..dressing up etc.
29. Has some friends at nursery...
Theres more but can't think right now.
Is the specialist right..should I just focus on the autism and dismiss for now the verbal dyspraxia..
Does it sound like more if my son has autism, speech delay or verbal dyspraxia