Not looking for a water table. We have this and the problem this type of toy is that water is free access.. we want to limit her access to water so that she has to either wait for her turn or request a peer etc... You get the drift?
What other toys can we try?
Looked at dolls that drink and pee.. I dont think that will be very reinforcing for her..
possibly a kettle that (fake) boils?
Wondering if getting her a watering can will be something we can look at?
Dd loves water play and has had lots of fun with a robofish she had for xmas so I have used this as a reinforcer. I know that doesn't quite fit the bill for what you describe though. The only other things I can think of are This this and this