Hi everybody, longtime lurker here due to concerns for DC2's development and all that I have read has been so helpful, I am hoping this continues I am in panic mode now....
DC2 - 2 yrs 7mths, a lovely lovely boy, last week received a private diagnosis of autism (from daphne keen who I know several mnetters have used.) Although I have known in my heart for months now and am relieved to have some clarity and focus to keep pushing for him it still feels like a loss and a struggle to avoid diving into the nearest wine vatbottle. But am determined to stay and act positive and will be canvassing for help on VB/ABA programmes in another post very soon.
But my immediate call for help is ove something today that has completely thrown me into a panic.
DS2 was referred for a Multi-Agency panel for assessment (we are in Surrey) before xmas, we were told the waiting lists were approx 6 mths so took a last-minute cancellation to see daphne keen privately so we could get a view on whether we had valid cause for concern (Basically I was not sleeping worrying over him). So we ended up having a 1.5 hr consultation with her a few days before the MAPP triage meeting to discuss DS2, her view being that he has autism.
I provided very detailed written observations on DS2 to MAPP and ensured there was preschool input also as per their deadlines for input but did not inform them of DK view as it was (a) verbal - we still don't have a copy of the report) and (b) the consultation with her occurred after their deadline for input. HOWEVER, a lady from Portage came to visit us just before the MAPP meeting and I did mention it to her as she said any info pertinent to prioritising DS2's case for support was important as they are oversubscribed. Turns out she was a participant in the MAPP mtg where they discussed DS2, mentioned that we had seen DK for a diagnosis, and now MAPP are saying that they need to see a copy of the report (which is fine, as I always intended to provide it once available) but also that they now will not assess DS2 as they will not 'duplicate ' another doctor's diagnosis.
Can they really do this, prevent us from having a multi-agency assessment for our boy because we separately had a 1.5 hr consultation with an NHS consultant who also works privately?? I just feel sick and faint all the time now, panicking that By trying to get an early view and make interventions as soon as possible we have done the wrong thing and somehow precluded him from full accessing NHS services. if anyone has any experience or insight into this I would be so so grateful, just feel I am drowning here, thanks in advance and apologies for any type, am sure they are legion :-)
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WhatsHisChops · 27/01/2014 22:31
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