DS can be very aggressive towards his younger sister.
They can play really nicely together but if she fails to follow his rules or touches his train etc he lashes out.
He punches her, hits her with toys, squeezes her arms and has started to put his hands round her neck.
Obviously this has to stop. He's getting bigger and stronger. We don't tolerate violence. He is sent straight to his room and told off. When we ask him why we're cross he doesn't seem to know, it's like he can't understand that what he did is wrong. He says she was annoying him so he hit her. If someone hurts him at school he knows it s wrong, but can't seem to compute that when he does it it's also wrong.
I have to protect DD. She's already told her teacher he tried to strangle her :( if she carries on telling them we'll be in the concerns book I know :(
It's getting to the point I can't leave the room for fear of him attacking her. He's nearly 7, I should be able to go to the loo or cook tea without all hell breaking loose.
Has anyone had similar? Any tips? I'm really at the end of my tether with it all.
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Holycowiloveyoureyes · 24/01/2014 12:06
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