Feeling like such an idiot. So much so that I've even name changed.
Took DS (4, autism) to dentist today. Practiced opening his mouth wide for the dentist and he was a star. Sat in the chair, opened his mouth, only for the dentist to tell me he has a slight underbite and his bite is also open (ie teeth don't meet at the front when he shuts his mouth). Probably caused by his dummy. Now waiting for orthodontist appointment.
Came home and I told him the dentist said he can't have them anymore. He helped me cut them up and put them in the bin. He's taken ages to fall asleep tonight and asked for it A LOT. For the last couple of years, he's only had it at bedtime. And it's usually spat out by the time we go to bed.
I feel like such a fool that we caused this by letting him keep it. He's 4, ffs, we should have taken it away ages ago. But once we started down the dx path and had so many other things to deal with, removing his dummy sort of became far less important when compared to the bigger picture. We didn't even know if he'd ever talk. Dummy was the last thing on our mind. Excuses, excuses, I know...
I don't know if there's much in the way of dental expertise on the MNSN boards, but I didn't want to post elsewhere. Feel a bit better for writing it down, but still feel like I've let him down. God, the guilt never stops, does it.
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Dummy - why didn't we just take it away?
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StupidBloodyDummy · 13/01/2014 20:17
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