Yet another meeting with ds at CAMHS. Previously I have been told he just needs hugs (3.5 yrs ago) and that I'm emotionally abusing him, complete with referral to ss (last Christmas)
Since then we've had formal complaint through pals, half arsed apology, and almost taking me seriously with a couple of questionnaires and then the connors scale.
Today I went with ds to discuss the grading of this, and straight away she said we were going to discuss a dx. I've come to expect bugger all, so this was a surprise. A family history, and one of ds' early years, but I have to go back for another appt without ds, as it involves dv, and he doesn't need to hear.
Anyway, at the mo we are looking at ASD, ADHD traits, partly due to low iron from not eating (some due to sensory some due to control) and PTSD. Also muttering attachment disorder, but that's another fancy way of saying blame the mum, and I'm well used to this. I am being strongly encouraged to do an attachment parenting course in Sept with a collogue of hers.
Well, attachment disorder could sum ds us, but so could many others. But am relieved to hear her muttering ASD and PTSD, given the "he needs lots of hugs" and "he can't be asd because he can make eye contact and hold a conversation with an adult" (the latter from the HCP who made a referral based on that, my insistence he perceives his world differently and loads of bollocks spouted by abusive xh)
So relieved, please don't burst my bubble, but talk to me about this possible attachment disorder/ attachment parenting class malarky
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Looks like we may get a diagnosis before ds reaches 18 <not holding breath mind>
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