So after a review meeting with the behaviour person today, I don't really think I got very far.
Apparently all Ds's (aged 10) needs are being met in school and he isn't causing them any problems at all, apparently. He is still being increasings aggressive at home and is very troubled by 'something'.
Ds keeps home and school apart and never mixes the 2. Although, he has started to talk about the 2 with the behaviour person.
She has told him he can tell her anything and doesn't just want to be told what he thinks she wants to hear.......And that's the problem. Some of the things she was saying that he told her, just weren't true (ie aggressiveness at home). He says things are fine and there's no issues. He's also told her he doesn't mind me going in - which he has a huge problem with and will get increasingly angry about if he thinks i'm going anywhere near school.
So he's telling her what he thinks she wants to hear (and I can tell thats what he's doing), but she is adamant that becuase she's told him he can be honest that he's not doing that.........So, my question is; what do I do and how do I get it across to them that just because he's told something doesn't mean he will do it. She really was adamant.......HELP!
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