My DS almost 3 - (ASD) has been going to nursery for 6 months- he hates it as its so unpredictable, does not do change at all and he finds being with other children very stressful. We have been working on this with Nursery staff,OtT, SALT and the inclusion officer, on trying to improve transition and things with Visuals and prompts- all was going okish - he still hated it but would calm down after an hour or so of being there.
However today when I dropped him off his whole bloody room has been changed round, I mean everything. The nursery workers were really sorry and said they had no prior warning. I am so fucking angry as Nursery know he would be like this. When the room leader knows there will be changes she does them little by little and when DS is in the room - even when its just changing a wall display.
What pisses me off the most is that if they had warned me - I could have prepared him a bit better - by taking photos and using visuals. I am so fucked off - its not the change I am pissed off at but the way in which it was done.
I am going in to the nursery later for an IEP review. Help me calm down and get my head together because right now I just want to go and shout/cry and get angry at the manager because this would have set my DS back hugely and most if not all of the staff would know this.
I know this may not sound like a massive deal but to us it is - I struggle to get him to nursery as it is.
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