I hope it is okay to post in the special needs section. My DS1 hasn't been officially labelled with anything yet, but I feel it is only a matter of time.
There have been concerns about DS since nursery days & he has had an IEP from the age of 3.5. He has problems mixing, has several nervous tics, doesn't always seem to grasp what you are saying to him, is very lathargic and has motor & organisation difficulties. School also seem concerned that he has trouble showing his emotions.
He seemed to improve just before leaving nursery & I fooled myself that maybe everything was now going to be okay, but as soon as he started school I was alerted to the fact he wasn't mixing, was lying around in the classroom, would not choose an activity etc.
H & myself were having a very bad time last year and I put a lot of his difficulties down to that - especially as he appeared to make great improvements at the end of the reception year, but a year on & the problems are still there.
He had someone from the social & interaction services in to observe him recently, but nothing much has come of it, as he was having quite a good day.
I know the SENCO at school is thinking down the AS road & I find it all really upsetting.
I have fought against him being labelled for years, but can now see for myself that he is not like the other children. His fine motor skills are very poor & his handwriting is appaulling, he still has trouble with things like getting dressed & putting his coat on, cannot organise himself at all & although his mixing has got better, there are days where you see him walking around the playground alone, or playing in the dirt with no friends around him.
I have had moments of blaming myself as a parent, thinking it all may be due to me not stimulating him enough - but comparring him to DS2 (3) I can see there is something very different about him.
I am so worried about how he will cope with the challanges of year 2 & SATS next year.
I always get myself so upset about him.
I want to know the best way I can help him.
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blueteddy · 22/05/2006 13:29
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