We moved school and LA 6 months ago, have had lots of problems over the last 6 months, had meetings with school, contacted CAHMS and arranged sessions for ds - teacher has given us a visual timetable to prepare ds for what he has that day. MS school P4 Scotland, one teacher per class, with specialist teachers for P.E, music and drama.
Ds hates music, first thing on Monday, real struggle to get him to school. Teacher speaks to me morning and afternoon about ds's refusal to participate in class activities and refusing to do work.
Tuesday ds wakes up early, I prepare him for every transition e.g 5 mins until it is time to get dressed, then I physically dress him, because he refuses to get dressed - he is "ill" because he doesn't want to go to school, time to go to the loo, lead him by the hand, prompt him to go, flsh, wash hands by the time we leave for school he is not refusing to go or saying he is ill even though he has maths first.
30 mins before school finishes I get a call from a TA (teacher usually phones me) to say he has a sore tummy. He has not participated in class activities that afternoon. I ask if he has gone to the loo at all ( he generally needs prompted and reminded) he seems absolutely fine when I get there. No one knows if he has gone to the toilet. My ds is being failed by this teacher, he is able to learn but not getting the support to learn and participate in school as his peers do. What can I do?
I almost think my ds is being excluded.
Do I write a letter? To HT and who else can I write to?
I want to kick up hell, I have given the school many chances they seem unwilling to support my ds - where should I start? I really don't want to move him, but I will if necessary, I don't drive so choice is limited.
Waiting on autism outreach to observe ds in class, but I am unhappy and need to do more.
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TapselteerieO · 14/05/2013 16:01
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