Just spent 2 days at BIBIC with my 3.5 year old DS. They don't diagnose but indicate, which showed he has quite severe sensory processing problems, is gifted in areas of non verbal reasoning and others, and is likely to very likely aspergers. This is all what I suspected but also was doubting myself as a neurotic mum as others implied that. My head is in a spin and I am hanging by a string, as I have been parenting a very clever manipulative son who is also more needy which is a tricky combo, coupled with sensory meltdowns and aspergers type meltdowns - I have been near breakdown many times. On top of this we are having to appeal his school admission, they have offered a different village school on a minibus with unfamiliar peer group. BIBIC were amazing and have given us lots of daily therapy to do to stimulate sensory development, and communication strategies for aspergers stuff. Am scared for his future and want to ensure he reaches his full potential and has a happy life. Am about to send off letter for stat asses, although our LA are very strict with a particularly low % of statemented children. What support would he need in school? Does anyone want to chat with me about my situation? Really need emotional support with all this, my DH is great but is struggling with health issues (in part due to sons behaviour, as am I), my parents offer no emotional support just undermining and judgement. Am hoping to hear from Homestart for a weekly volunteer mentor which will help.
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NourishingButtons · 04/05/2013 12:51
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