Hi everyone, I am a long term lurker on the SN threads but a first time poster. I am after some advise about what you would do next in my position.
Ds (5) was born extremely prematurely, he developed pretty normally considering this although didn't really start talking until he was 3.
He was a difficult toddler but always within normal limits but now his behaviour can be awful and I really don't know what to do next. His default emotion seems to be anger and a lot of thinhs can cause him to meltdown. During meltdowns he hits, spits and growls. We consistently put him on time out for hitting and have zero tolerance for hitting.
He has some sensory issues, mainly that he is hyper sensitive to touch. He hates sticky hands and dirty clothes. Both of these can cause meltdowns if he cannot wash his hands or change his clothes right away.
Some of his anger is triggered by anxiety, school play would be a good example of this!
Most of his meltdowns are caused by not wanting to do as he is told or not getting his own way
He does have some social awkwardness with no proper friends. He plays normally with this 4 year old brother. He has a great imagination. He wants to play with other children but has difficulty initiating play.
He is keeping up at school and school say he does not need any extra support. They recognise that he is socially immature but think considering his prematurity he is doing ok.
I know he has plenty of asd traits but right now don't see what a diagnosis would bring. I would like help with how to manage the behaviour, has anybody else had experience of violent meltdowns and any effective methods that would reduce these. Any suggested reading would also be massively appreciated.
Thank you
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Hubertthesausagedog · 22/04/2013 22:44
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