I'm also thinking I've been in denial for quite a while
Dd is a joy, she's 8 and actually doing fine in school, she loves going, thinks everyone is her friend. (Although I really don't see that anyone really is her best friend at all)
On the plus side, she learned to read on her own before starting school and is a total book worm, she gets on fine in class with only the occasional talking out of turn (really good teacher worked on that with her) She has a memory like a trap door with things that she likes and is interested in, sadly, Maths isn't one of those things and she is struggling, with basic maths facts and still has to add up on fingers even though she has moved on to other things the basics still slow her down.
I'm starting to think she really does have gross motor delays. She cannot for the life of her figure out peddling a bike no matter how much she wants too, she's a bit clumsy. Skipping ropes are something they do at school and she has trouble there too. Bouncing balls, catching and throwing are more difficult things.
She had Swim lessons last summer, two kids one teacher and did wonderfully. But she looks so uncomfortable and awkward when trying to swim normally, yet she swims great underwater and can do the back stroke!
She does dance class, every week for the last two years and still has trouble with right arm left leg at the same time and keeping a beat is impossible. I had her do Dance hoping it would help with balance and co ordination. She's enjoying it, but as she gets older I can see other girls in the class looking and getting annoyed that she isn't in time with group dances.
I wonder how long to keep her in, I don't want her feeling hurt when one day they decide to tell her how crap she is at it.
Just writing it all down makes me teary, So I'll leave this for the night. If anyone had suggestion of games or activities I can do with her to help her, I'd be grateful, I'll probably drip feed as you make suggestions if you don't mind.
I really only posted in SN area as I thought you all have more understanding of kids struggling. I don't think she has any particular special needs from reading about some of the things other children go through in life.
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