OK NC for this as don't want to out myself
DH works for a US company. Each year they do a reward scheme where they send their top performing staff on a 1 week all expensive 5 star 'holiday' for employee & partner. (they call it a holiday, but it is with 100 of your colleagues & you are all expected to attend various functions and team building events throughout the week).
DH has qualified for the past 3 years but has not gone, as I didn't want to leave DD (DH company have made it very clear DC are not invited) and DH won't go without me.
This year he really wants to go, partially because it's in a cool location, but also because there have been recent redundancies & he thinks it's important for job security to be seen by the management as someone who is performing.
He also thinks that we need a break away together, as things have been very stressful lately.
MIL is desperate to look after DD for the week, she's a retired SENCO so plenty of experience in SN. SIL also lives locally and is a paediatric intensive care nurse, so again lots of experience of caring for a child with DD SN.
With all of this I'm still really nervous about leaving DD, I've only ever spent 1 night away from her in 3 years. It's not that I don't trust MIL & SIL, asbthey are both great with DD, i'm concerned that should anything happen it will take us over a day to get home (DD has been hospitalised, via emergency ambulance, 3 times in the past year with severe breathing problems).
WWYD? - when I talk to my real life (non-SN parents) they think I'm mad for not wanting to go, all they see is the free holiday, they don't understand what it's like to spend all night holding an oxygen mask to DD face or the guilt I'd feel should something happen & I'm not there ......
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HolidayDilemmaSN · 13/02/2013 12:38
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