I have a 9 year old nephew who has always been slightly "different". He is an extremely bright boy and apparently on the gifted and talented register at school but has always seemed slightly awkward in social circumstances and is often the one on the perimeter when we get together as a family and all the cousins play.
It is becoming increasingly apparent as he gets older that there may be issues, wanting to go home early from days out, school refusal, separation anxiety etc, and often completely over the top reactions when things don't go as he wants, often over seemingly ridiculous things.
At a recent gathering he moaned, whined and got completely over wrought for nearly two hours over the fact that the pizza house had no pineapple to put on his pizza! My poor SIL who spent the whole night trying to cajole and pacify him was overheard to say "do you need to go into the toilets with dad to focus?"
To parents of children with ASD/Aspergers does that phrase mean anything to you? It's quite an awkward situation as almost every occasion now results in some incident with him leaving us all silent and almost embarrassed, but don't want to ask SIL if there are problems because surely they'd have explained to us if that was the case?
Grateful for any suggestions and advice.
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Does this phrase mean anything to you?
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