I am so lost as to how I can help DS become happier again. He's loosing the light in him as it's going out slowly :(
DS (age 10) has always been popular and had a lovely small group of friends he played with - he will mix with anyone but always ends back with the same lads. He portrays himself as very confident so he can hide what's really going on.
Over the last year, these friendships have dwindled the more 'apparent' his difficulties have become. There is a wider gap now between him and his peers.
He's had bullying previously, about 3 years ago but this seems to be starting again, although with a different boy. He's very sensitive and although he gives the impression he could, he wouldn't be able to stand up for himself if needeed.
He's spending more time by himself and he knows all this is going on and he's loosing friends. He's very aware of his difficulties, won't let me talk to school to help him and doesn't want anyone to know he's got difficulties.
On top of all this he is being assessed for ADHD/ASD/Sensory/Dyspraxic issues
We've had meetings with the school and pointed all these things out and to be fair they are going to put things in place as quickly as possible to try to help him (although, I have to say this is only after i've got other people involved.
He's very teary, wanted a 'chat' with me every night, wants to leave school, wants to give up his previous favourite hobby, he's putting off going to sleep at night, slouches when he walks, not eating as much, very low self esteem, very irritable and wanting to spend less 'vulnerable' time as possible in school.
There's probably lots more but this is just the top of my head. I just want my happy boy back and this 'grey' boy to leave him alone.
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Please help me to help DS........I think he's depressed
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sweetteamum · 18/01/2013 09:41
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