I used to have a professional career but then I had DS1, had major PND, resigned to move out of London and since then have mainly been SAHM, had DS2, done odd bits of part-time work, then childminding, now on maternity leave with DC3. The decision to have DC3 was partly influenced by getting DS1s ASD diagnosis confirmed, because I kind of felt that the chances of me having a proper career were now fairly low anyway so another baby might not make much difference.
DS1 copes at school but brings all his tension and anxiety home and I really don't feel he could cope with before and after school childcare, and DH's job involves long hours and the ability to work late or go away for a few nights at short notice. So I feel my options are pretty much limited to working within school hours only. I know we are lucky that we can afford for me to be at home but sometimes the thought of doing this forever gets to me.
I'd be really interested to know how others manage to balance the need/desire for work with the need to give a child with ASD enough stability and routine.
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Parents of HF ASD/Aspergers - do you work and what childcare do you use?
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Doraemon · 03/01/2013 19:23
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