Ds is 6 (ASD and LD) in MS school and we have major problems with spellings. He is doing well, and school have been fab, but we are stuggling with coping with making mistakes, or getting things wrong.
He is part of a sub group of kids who do three spellings a week rather than the 6 that the rest do, which is fine, and he can learn / do the spellings, but he is always in floods of tears if he doesn't get 3 out of 3. If it's the first one he gets wrong he is so distraught he can't complete the others..
We have done lots of 'people make mistakes and it's ok', you are learning and trying, so not right yet is just part of that' and 'look what you have got right' and not mentioning mistakes etc etc
and I know the issue is part of his ASD 'things must be finished or completed-ness'
just wondered if any of you wise women had any tips?
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signandsmile · 05/12/2012 17:03
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