i have a 3 and a half year old girl that was seen by a doctor in the paediatric assessment clinic at kaleidoscope in lewisham. the doctor dismissed every trait i mentioned apart from continuing with the SALT. i have battled over what course of action to take for months and although i felt relieved at the thought she was ok, the fact, she still displays the traits is worrying. this is what the doctor told me: the tip-toeing is only without shoes and thus, if she was ASD she would be doing it all the time, although i did state if she could do it with the shoes on, i'm sure she would, the lining up of objects was a phase of development that every child goes through and would lose later on, the hoover noise only bothered her sometimes and therefore cannot be ASD, the repeat of some words after i said them and the repeating of questions was to get a better understanding and hence developmental since she was delayed in speech and language skills. recently my girl has began to babble (sometimes) rather than talk properly and when upset tries to bite the back of her hand (sometimes), she puts this down to the fact she is the baby of the family. has anyone else had this information given to them? i told her because she was a girl she could be so easily missed but she stated that she had been in this field for 7 years and was good at spotting the girls with ASD and thought my girl was doing just fine, hence has closed her file. she was seen at this clinic, with another doctor 17 months ago, and again the only thing she picked up on was speech and language delay. i have to say after two specialists who believe she is developing well, plus the fact no one else sees what i see, which includes my wife, maybe i've got it wrong??? or has 1 consultant said to me we are all autistic. please help?
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