Have namechanged as lots of info on here re DC1, and putting the dc together would out me to LA.
Ds2 is doing my head in. He is just over 2. Very clever, very verbal after being pretty quiet for a long time, cute, smiley, likes people. Genuinely likes some pretend stuff (mainly inappropriate tv based ): pirate eyepatch, light sabre. Has been taught to briefly tuck in a baby doll, play choo-choos in a box, and will use toy kitchen stuff if getting the real stuff out all over the floor isn't an option.
Extremely active, extremely determined, extremely independent, a talented escape artist, climbs up to fridge, tries to get to toaster / microwave/ kettle / knives, broke the oven, has violent tantrums that go on for up to an hour, over-sensitive hearing, hates swings, funny with clothes, needs brute force or straight bribery with sweets for buggy, handholding, high chair, carseat, reins etc. Gets fixated with objects and routines, needs perfect application of all the ASD and ADHD parenting tricks I've learned from dealing with his big sibling.
Didn't point at 18m but does now, sometimes responds to stuff (unreliable, despite mostly being heavily prompted and reinforced) eg his name or following a point. He can do most toys etc for a few seconds then gets fed up so his main play activity is kicking, throwing or emptying. But will potter for 20-30 minutes when something random appeals to him.
Community paed appt next month, I don't want to over-do the concerns because there are lots of 'normal' behaviours too, and I know that nearly all toddlers are active, dangerous, own-agenda-led, quirky types. But I closed my eyes to the ASD bits of dc1's behaviour (the ADHD was so very obvious it was harder to deny ) and it was then hard to be taken seriously.
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imaginingitornot · 25/11/2012 11:08
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