Hi everyone, I'm a long time lurker but I've never quite had the guts to post anything. However, a week ago my Mum made a comment that I can't stop thinking about and I need somewhere to rant. Hope you don't mind.
So here goes...
DH and I have a 4yo DS (recently dx with ASD) I had a nightmare pregnancy, spent pretty much the whole 9 months in bed, having epileptic fits on a daily basis. I was extremely ill. Anyway the actual labour wasn't much better but DH was brilliant and we got through it together. We eventually made the decision to have no more children (neurologist told me all future pregnancies would be the same) and DH had the snip. We have accepted this and are a very happy little family.
My Mum said this to me last week:
'Do you think DS's ASD is God's punishment for deciding not to have more children?'
DS was dx three weeks ago. It has all happened quite quickly and we are just getting our heads around things. Why would she say this? I feel guilty enough about this whole thing. For the record, she's not at all religious, she knows I am. A week later, I'm still crying over this stupid comment.
Thanks for reading if you've got this far, I don't really know what I expect anyone to say. I just feel better having written it all down. Thanks.
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My Mum told me DS's ASD is punishment from God
Dulida · 17/11/2012 22:27
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