My DD has been diagnosed with Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), which we have suspected for quite some time. It has come as a bit of a relief to us to finally be able to understand how things are for her, and be able to do something proactive to help her. Obviously up until now we have been sensitive to her needs but haven't understood what has been behind her behaviour (which DM has often been disapproving of and I have just ignored her)
I have waited for the full report before talking to my DM about this, mainly as I am fairly certain she will be dismissive, even hostile when I tell her, and instead will probably insist DD is being deliberately naughty, awkward, difficult, attention seeking etc etc. She has previously said she "doesn't believe in ADHD, kids are just naughty and in her day a slap would sort them out" Obviously I despair of this and have tried to argue with her in the past but she just goes grumpy and stops talking. As much as I brace myself for such a reaction (at the moment I am just going to counteract that by saying the OT that assessed her has years of training and experience etc) but I'm not sure I'll be able to keep my cool or explain it very well.
I just wondered if anyone else had a similar experience they could share, or ideas of what to say etc. I feel DD deserves understanding from all the family, my DM often makes a big deal out of her difficulties and if I can make her see that they are out of DD's control and she's not being deliberately naughty it would make a difference. However maybe I will have to accept the worse case scenario of very little support
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Woolyboots · 15/11/2012 19:01
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