My DS2 gets mid rate DLA care and has been sent forms to apply for mobility as he is nearly 5yo. DD2 gets high rate care and has been sent forms for mobility as she just turned 3yo. I wasn't expecting this (not very clued up) and find these forms a nightmare. I was up at 4am filling them in cause I just needed them to be finished. I find them so emotionally draining, who wants to have to talk about every little detail of what's 'wrong' with their child, it's so hard. Now that I have sent them off it's not much better, I'm laying awake half the night hoping I've done them properly. Have I put everything in? Will we loose what we have? What will will do if that happens? They need alot of care and the mobility side is much more of an issue this year as I can't squeeze DS2 into a baby buggy any more and DD2 is getting to that point fast and needs wheels much more often.
I know many of you have been through this, I just needed to vent my worries to people who will understand this isn't about being greedy and wanting money, it's about NEEDING it and not having a clue how we will manage!
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laura4jasmine · 12/11/2012 09:22
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