Its bad enough i do it with ds1 but now i seem to be automatically doing it with ds2. As many of you already know Ds1 is 6 and a half with sensory issues (seeking) and although sensory issues was confirmed by OT ive always been looking at behaviours wondering if its more. We are awaiting referal to CAHMS. With ds1 since he was 2ish ive picked up on all concerns, repetitive behaviours, tic like habits, over activeness etc i still find myself doing it with him, eg yesterday he kept flapping his hands ive done that much reading and researching to try and help us now i see things everywhere that may be nothing, much to dh's annoyment.
So now ds2 is 14 months, since he was a baby dh and i have seen how different he is to ds1. Much calmer a baby (ds1 was never settled) he sat up, crawled and walked early, seemed so much 'more with us' than ds1 ever did, good interaction, 'getting things' so much so i keep saying to people how clever he is to be told thats just normal, ds1 was never like that so not to me its not. So all in all should have no concerns but i still see myself worrying about little things, eg, ds2 rarely responds to his name just totally ignores you, now hes active he started running full pelt into things and people on purpose, he sits in front of a wall, unit etc and bangs his head off it progressively getting slightly harder, he shakes his head furiously side to side and laughs, this is probably all normal dh says hes just exploring new things but i cant stop doubts and wondering what if he is like ds1 what if hes worse! i really struggle with ds1 i cant control him he seems to actually enjoy misbehaving, im so exhausted with him and i dont want to be stressing about ds2 as well. Someone tell me to get a grip and stop worrying.
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DrWhoNeverTires · 05/11/2012 10:03
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