So, background: DD2 has until recently been in the largest bedroom but we have swapped things around for various reasons and moved her into a slightly smaller one. She has coped with the moving and the change really well, but, we are having a huge problem with her things.
We had explained to her that she would have less room, and we had done some sorting before the move and agreed to getting rid of some things. But on moving her bed and main bits of furniture into her new room we have discovered just how much stuff she had hidden away. Her bed is one of those high level beds with built in furniture underneath and there was a big gap behind it she had filled - anywhere she could put stuff under or behind we have found she had crammed stuff in.
So we have moved some of her things into her new room, but the rest is still in her old one which we are now in - we have only just got our bed in and you can hardly walk around it. She knows she needs to do something and wants her new room to be nice but gets highly distressed at the idea of getting rid of anything, her things are her security. She wants me to make it all fit but it won't - but some of it HAS to go.
The sort of stuff she has squirreled away:
clothes that are too small but she won't throw away
packaging for loads of things including all the shoe boxes for her shoes
all her school books, pictures, birthday cards etc. she has every received
several bin bags full of soft toys
toys from kids meals
collections of toilet rolls, rocks, cars, etc. (she tends to get very interested in something for a while then moves onto something else but keeps it all)
It is now more urgent as DH has to have a serious operation on his leg in a couple of weeks and will immobile and then on crutches, he needs to be able to get in/out of bed without tripping over all the junk very important stuff
We have let this get out of hand does anyone have any ideas we can try?
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Turningupsidedown · 04/11/2012 01:08
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