dd 11 has just returned from an activity holiday. She has had a fabulous time however when recounting stories from her hol she has told me the following.
I enjoyed activity a and b but didn't like activity c because I didn't like the instructor he was horrible. when I questioned her she said that he was calling the children spazzes and spastics if they made mistakes (in a joking manner). I asked her if she had said anything and she said that to the other instructor, he shouldn't say that, its horrible.
The other instructor agreed and told him he shouldn't say it. He carried on to the extent that at dinner that evening the children who were present were all repeating it and calling him it.
WWYD? should I email and complain? if I do should I name him, or just make a general complaint? He will only be a young lad, he should know better but I wouldn't like to get someone sacked.