Hi all
Ds is 8,ADHD and asperger a traits.
He has just started middle school.
So far we have had a few complaints for other parents about ds bullying there children. These parents have said nothing to me,it's All been done threw the school,(thank goodness)
Teacher has reassured me that these complaints are tell tales and nothing to really worry about,
She said ds Is hitting alittle and has anger issues.
This week she tells me there is more complaints,and there abit more serious,ds is striking others over the face,because they are staring at him mainly, or not playing to his rules!
Teacher told me these parents were quite upset,understandably!
She has also asked for us ideas to help ds. And she was also "very sorry" to be telling us this as she can see we have alot on with him.
This eve at the dinner table ds told me about the boy he sits with at class.
Ds said he scribbled over his work because his elbow touched him.
Ds then said the boy went to the loo,ds said he followed him....ds said I heard him in the loo telling himself that he was going to tell on me...
So I told him when he came out,that if he told on me he would get "this" ( ds pretends to punch my face!) I asked ds,did you punch him? Ds said yes,really hard. I told him I'd kill him if he told on me and I told him to stay with me at lunch. And he did.
I can't begin to tell you how horrified I am that ds came out with this.
Should I speak to the teacher and ask her to separate the boys ( the other boy had speech and Lang)
I had a chat with ds after and spoke about bullying and gave examples of bullying
Although he understood our chat and the examples/scenarios we gave him ..he didn't understand his own actions. I'm lost on what to do with him.
Any advice is welcome.
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