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my world has ended.........

(33 Posts)
devientenigma Mon 22-Oct-12 16:38:13

...........sitting here sobbing, don't know how I'm going to cope sad

shazian Mon 22-Oct-12 16:40:12

massive hugs devient, not been on here all week sorry.... what has happened? xxxxx

StarlightMcKenzie Mon 22-Oct-12 16:40:49

What has happened? x

Ilovecake1 Mon 22-Oct-12 16:41:24

Hi, sorry to hear that your upset. Anything I can help with? Big hugs

devientenigma Mon 22-Oct-12 16:53:23

sorry just can't think about it yet, too numb, it will seem nothing but if you've walked our life it's huge iyswim.

TheNinjaGooseIsOnAMission Mon 22-Oct-12 16:53:52

hugs dev xx

Penneyanne Mon 22-Oct-12 16:54:10

Oh Devient,what has happened?Please come and tell us,someone may be able to help.We are all here to listen.

devientenigma Mon 22-Oct-12 16:55:28

honest you will all think it's nothing.....

bochead Mon 22-Oct-12 16:56:11

know that we are all here for you, whether you are able to talk about it or not .

StarlightMcKenzie Mon 22-Oct-12 16:56:47

I doubt it Dev, but we can't offer support blindly. smile

StarlightMcKenzie Mon 22-Oct-12 16:57:25

I mean we can't offer 'specific' support iyswim.

starfishmummy Mon 22-Oct-12 16:58:24

Devient, big hugs.

Strongecoffeeismydrug Mon 22-Oct-12 16:59:53

Sending hugs

devientenigma Mon 22-Oct-12 17:00:21

after 11 nearly 12 years of special needs crap and the amount of therapists etc we've battled and got no where, only 3 are worth their weight in gold, 1 isn't listened to and the other 2 who have made small steps lately into moving things forward for DS, 1 is defo leaving and the other maybe !! FFS I just feel like giving up, it's took all sorts to get to the stage, to have to build it up all over again and how many to go through etc and how many years........sorry, it seems nothing but who have I got now!

PurplePidjInAPointyHat Mon 22-Oct-12 17:00:30


And wine

ChippingInLovesAutumn Mon 22-Oct-12 17:03:30

Devient - big hugs my love x None of us will think 'it's nothing', we all understand.

whatthewhatthebleep Mon 22-Oct-12 17:07:19

I'm so getting how you are feeling...sending you a warm hug ...just let it all out...we are here 1 and all...we get it xx

ChippingInLovesAutumn Mon 22-Oct-12 17:07:51


Oh my love, of course that's not nothing!! That's a big OH FUCK!! sad Hopefully, hopefully, hopefully they can recommend other people who can help you and you never know, maybe the people who are replacing them will be even more pro active.

Lots of hugs, wine & chocolate

StarlightMcKenzie Mon 22-Oct-12 17:08:56

Blimey Dev, that doesn't sound like 'nothing' at all. Why are they moving on. Have they themselves given up?

You only know for definite that ONE is going, and you don't know for certain that replacement is crap.

TheNinjaGooseIsOnAMission Mon 22-Oct-12 17:10:39

definitely not nothing dev brew

devientenigma Mon 22-Oct-12 17:13:31

It's whats going through my head Chipping. Email I have sent the GP:

My world has ended.

You are leaving!

Who is on the other end of an email?

I'm gutted, although I am pleased for you, but so lost.

Who do we turn to now?

However midstream of tears I'm now thinking we need to set up a few meetings with someone she suggests in the practice to try and get what we have now.

devientenigma Mon 22-Oct-12 17:14:27

no, new job Star

Penneyanne Mon 22-Oct-12 17:16:44

Oh devient,that is not at all trivial.The good ones are truly worth their weight in gold.What awful luck that two should be going at the same time.It reminds me a little of moose and her story with the school at the moment and all last yrs great work with her ds being undone because this yrs teacher is crap and doesnt 'get' her ds. Its so bloody unfairsad.
On the positive side,they might just be replaced with really good ones and I'm sure with a great mum like yourself,who is so supportive and on-the-ball always,that it really wont be as bad as you think.
I'm sorry I cant be of more help but I am sending virtual hugs to you dev and thanks.

whatthewhatthebleep Mon 22-Oct-12 17:23:04

I hope you can see that this might not mean the disaster you feels like it right now but may never come to that at all....

1 is definitely leaving, start there and find out who is taking over, need to build a new relationship and hope that your current person hands over really well to this person with you too.

1 step at a time with this. Try not to think the worst and tie yourself in knots...I know it's easier said than done

RinkyDinkyDoo Mon 22-Oct-12 17:28:28

Certainly not trivial and can really empathise (hug) Took ages to get a SALT for DS, when we did she was 6 months pregnant,so DS didn't have time to bond with her before her maternity leave started, next one came with a bump as well, the 3rd one was great, DS saw her 3 times and was starting to work with her when I noticed she was putting on weight.I actually said DS never seems to work long enough with anyone before they disappear, cue very embarressed SALT lady,who said she was 6 months. She did actually set up a transistion session with the 4th one, but as it turns out he was due to start school and he wasn't going to the school she oversaw.
Ask for transition with new people if they can set that up it might help.x

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