For the past year, I've been looking into things for DS1, who has always had certain minor issues and oddities but these have recently caused problems, meaning I have started looking into it.
My obviously very professional and clearly 100% accurate (haha) diagnosis is that I think he has mild AS. Of course, this could be wrong but from my point of view almost everything fits... albeit mildly.
So my main question is whether anyone knows whether "mild" AS children could come off as fairly normal in school? DS's teacher was shocked when I asked for a referral and said she wouldn't have even considered it (AS). I would agree that most problems that we have show up at home, not at school. He deals with school well because it's a fairly structured environment and he is really bright so does really well at his work. I know that issues have arisen in the school yard at lunch/breaktime, but of course the teacher isn't aware of these as she's not there.
My aunt is also a teacher (at another school) and only sees DS fairly briefly once a year, for a few hours over a few days. She slammed my "diagnosis" and said that she's used to dealing with AS kids and that DS was just "bright, highly intelligent, and high strung" (which is certainly true). She also said that AS kids can't "hide" their traits (or I guess be pretty normal in the classroom). I'm wondering if this is true, or if she's not looking at the whole spectrum possibility (and therefore if DS was mild on the spectrum, then he may be able to compensate/adjust in school, and "let go" at home).
Ideas? Please?
Oh, and as a secondary thing, if you have gone through an AS diagnosis with your DC and your DC doesn't have really prevalent AS traits, what sort of things would you recommend to prove your case/show them? I think it's going to be an uphill battle for me, and am almost resigned to not getting a diagnosis... TIA for all advice and thoughts :)
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