DS is 8. Today I got chatting to another mum, who said 'He's got Aspergers, hasn't he?' I said I didn't know, we have no official diagnosis, and that he's a little unusual but hey, who isn't? She said that both her sons are on the spectrum and her son (who was with her) had said to her 'That boy's like me, isn't he, Mum?'
I've previously had 'kind' strangers say 'Is he autistic?'. We do have an official DX of 'mild dyspraxia' - his fine motor skills are not brilliant - but as yet his school, who are very good with SN kids, have not actually taken me to one side and suggested we Do Something about any other issues (WRT the dyspraxia, we had a couple of visits to an occupational therapist and a bit of OT in school and in fact his co-ordiation and handwriting etc have improved a lot in the past year or so.
I'm not sure what to do. Whether I should carry on letting DS just be himself (he's clever, very articulate but he is a bit, well, odd, sometimes) or whether I should start trying to get him officially 'labelled'. Both his dad and I are a bit odd, too, though neither of us has any kind of official label to that effect.
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
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Not sure what to do - 'diagnosis' from strangers. Repeatedly.
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