Ds school has now gone from keeping him behind after school, to now making him do these "support sessions" in his break AND lunch!!
He said at the moment doing it in lunch and break is not bothering him as it is getting cold outside so doesnt mind being indoors, however I still do not think it is acceptable to do this, especially as the teacher that is dishing out these detentions "work support" met him at his locker at hometime today and told him to go to the session, even though I had told my son he was to come home. I had to remind my son that as much as I have always taught him to be respectful to his elders, in this instance, he must not defy me, the deputy head has now for the second time said to my son "who runs the school" The bottom line is I am his parent, and I have final say...END OF and they should not be encouraging my child to go against me...and all this from a Catholic school
They know they will have a very weak agruement if the exclude him...what will they say, "well we have detained this boy becasue he needed extra support, for not being able to write quick enough or being able to understand or keep up at the same pace as the 1st set boys even though we as a school acknowledge he has difficulties, hence us putting him in the lowest set of all (5th) for all his core subjects and in fact forced him to do an ASDAN which is reserved for the most needy. We did not think it reasonable to use it out of his 13 hours support (not specified as 1:1), nor did we see fit, despite telling the LEA that he will have an LSA for this particular subject and not putting it in place to try and find a more stable non victimising way. The mother kept insisting that we do not keep her son after school and becasue he did not attend xxx times we had to exclude him as set out in our policy...Oh sorry, we forgot, no such penalty is actually in our policy, but we thought we would just do it anyway as we feel it is for his own good"
I was going to write a letter to the Chair of governers, but at that stage where I cant make sense as I am so angry.
I asked the school to tell me what exactly he had done to need these forced support session, they refuse to respond, I asked last week for the Head or Deputy head to meet to come to some middle ground..I still have no response, I have asked for them to point out where in their policy it states the can detain boys for not understanding their work, no response. The only time they reply to me is to scold me.
The idiot head writes in his letter that "the 13 hours statemented support is for classroom time, work support sessions are provided as extra support in work, as the name suggests for pupils who are experiencing difficulties for whatever reason"
Last I knew all his subjects were part of classroom time. Half of me is thinking please let them continue this and let them shoot themselves in the foot as it is all mounting evidence to take the LEA AND the school back to SENDIST, but at the same time I cant just sit back and watch this madness.
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hoxtonbabe · 18/10/2012 18:49
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