DS1 is in year 3, diagnosed last year as high-functioning Autistic Spectrum Condition (Child Development Centre no longer use Aspergers as a diagnosis and his speech was delayed - otherwise he presents as very Aspergerish).
He is on School Action Plus, has a bit of SALT input and is receiving a bit of social skills support in school but not much. Academically he is doing really well, meeting or exceeding age related expectations in reading writing and maths, a bit behind on listening and speaking but improving there as well - for all differentiated activities in school he is in the top groups. He enjoys school and socially he has 'friends' i.e. the kids in his class who he gets on well with, although I'm never sure quite whether the children he classes as good friends would identify him as a particular friend iykwim. He doesn't want to play at other children's houses without me and doesn't have other children back here to play because by the end of school he's really had enough. He goes to one out of school activity where he joins in happily. Behaviour at home is very variable, sometimes great, sometimes incredibly hard work.
School have said he's very unlikely to get statemented because he's not falling behind at all, and I believe them - our LA has a very high rate of SEN. And I don't actually think that he needs a one-to-one assistant - in some ways I think it would actually impede his social skills because he would try to rely on an assistant in a similar way that he does with me. I can see that transition to secondary will be challenging for him though - academically I think he will enjoy it but socially it will be a shock as his primary is small and the secondary he will probably go to is very big.
Everyone on here seems so determined to get statementing - am I being totally naive to think that actually we're OK on SA+?
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ASD, no statement, think he's OK without one but am I naive?
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Doraemon · 08/10/2012 20:04
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