I am convinced dd is dyspraxic. She has always been incredibly clumsy and still struggles with stairs now at 8.5 (prefers to go down them on her bottom, but in public will put one foot on the stair, then the next one will catch up, then the first foot goes down to the next stair-we went to a slate mine in the hols and the talk had finished before we got to the bottom!) She finds buttons really tough, can only just ride a bike, still can't catch a ball and can't do laces. She was tested at school after her teacher thought that there was something amiss, and because her writing was neatly formed and on the line (she had been doing a one-to-one handwriting lesson for 30 mins three times a week for two years in school!) and could stand on one leg they said she was fine, no need for further investigation.
I can deal with that, it is really annoying and she is having a very rough time in games, but if she isn't so bad then hopefully she will catch up with her peers eventually. However, I REALLY cannot cope with the messiness and forgetfulness! I am constantly tidying up after her, and she has no idea that she is even creating the mess in the first place. Food constantly falls off her plate/down her shirt/is smeared around her mouth. Her room will be an absolute shambles within 5 minutes of me tidying it but she will have no idea how it got like that, or where to begin with tidying it, and she appears incapable of remembering anything whatsoever.
She has just told me that she has got a detention for not doing her homework, and is totally devastated. She is always very keen to please, so even a cross word from a teacher worries away at her. A detention has left her incapable of speaking to me. When I asked why she didn't bring it home she said that she had lost it. She had also "lost" her homework diary, tie and school shoes today. She is totally incapable of remembering that she had been given a sheet or book, within seconds, so won't think to put it in her bag. She sometimes puts it in her school desk, but that looks like it has been the paper recycling place for the entire school, and so won't notice it if she looks in there later on anyway.
I am at my wits end. I am fed up of the teachers telling me that I need to make her more organised, and treating me like some horrendous lax parent. I organise her as much as I can at home, but by the time I pick her up from after school club the rest of the school is locked up, so we cannot go back to her classroom for things. I have back ups of everything, i.e. uniform, pens, coats, shoes, as I know that she will leave things at school, but I cannot have back ups of homework that she forgets to bring home, or misplaces entirely.
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Struggling with dyspraxic child!
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Newlysingleandstuck · 01/10/2012 20:06
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