i have a 6 yr old son who recently had a criteria done but because the head never disclosed all of his exclusions and behaviour his consultant said for now she will see if carms down and socialise better, now last friday after we went beserk after staff at school were witnessed by parents grabbing him the head disclosed how do we cope at home why i asked well hes hyper and full of life and into everything i was stunned why i asked did you not tell his consultant not reply as yet , our son is loud and hyper and often gets into scuffs as he doesnt understand when to stop or share and play fair and it is rather blunt at times when speaking so now i dont know what to do and hes already getting into mischeif at school as they are tackling his figiting the wrong way by yelling at him which frustrates himthis form of discipline to him is a attack as he belives is ok to figit and chat at high volume any ideas
Two things..............1) its a developmental pead you want NOT community
2) If your son was excluded from school then did they not issue you with a written letter advising you of the exclusions? If so there is your log as school should be making a log of every exclusion. If not then the exclusions are illegal....bear in mind that even half a day sending him home is still classed as an exclusion and should still have a letter given.
I would also say, no letter and you won't be able to take him home. So many schools cover up the level of exclusions to make it appear to the LEA that they are coping better than they actually are. If they say letter tomorrow - fine, but if it doesn't appear, don't give that option if there's a next time.