It is my Ds's 16th birthday today. For the first time we are not having an elaborate themed party so I am not up to my eyes making cakes and decorations and inventing games which have to be exactly right.
He has matured a lot over the last year and become more independent in many ways. However his OCD is still a major problem and now that he has hit the 16 point my fears for his future are becoming more acute.
At the moment it is only minor things that are changing - new bank account, his own railcard, adult bus fares. He will be in school until July and I'm sure that I can sort a good 6th form place for him, but what happens after that?
Will he manage university, a job, a partner. Will he manage to live independently? DH and I are both over 50 - what will happen when we are not longer around? He is much to able for any adult care services I know of to be approriate.
If he still needs mental health services as a adult, which is quite likely, I dread him being at the mercy of what seem to be totally inadequate provision.
Sorry just venting. I'll go and make his (straightforward) cake now. At least he is healthy and in a good school.
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DS is 16 today - mixed feelings.
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NoHaudinMaWheest · 27/09/2012 09:49
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