OK - back story. DD1 is HE this year as she has been developing some anxiety issues and generally not happy at school. She never really made friends and it seemed to be 'costing' her more to go there than she got back iyswim. She is 7. She is on a huge waiting list for a psychologists asessment due to some 'non-organic' pain in the summer, when the consultant thought she was 'not like other children' and referred her to clinical psychology. I personally believe she has a very high functioning asperger syndrome so you only see it on certain days or in certain situations.
Anyhow. I went to her GP a while back to see if the 6 month minimum wait for assessment list could be looked at. Could CAMHS help or was there a private option or could we go to another unit or whatever. I hadn't heard and the actual psychology department were evasive (at best) so I asked for a GP call back.
They rang back 40 mins later - brilliant.
Had talk about the lack of service, agreed it isn't good enough, discussed the awful predicament adults who need similar services are in, Discussed lack of private practitioners. GP will look to see if other hospitals (all at least 50 miles away) have shorter lists. Was sympathetic, wholst admitting there is absolutely no help for us in the meantime. The children's psychologist works half time and there is one in the whole fecking trust.
Then, as we were ringing off - 'and you will let us know about the MMR very soon. Goodbye'
ARRRGH. No I won't. I will let them know when I am ready. That is a conversation about a totally different child and not something this stressed, miserable and totally annoyed with the fecking NHS needs to be reminded of right now.
Why mention it? Why?
I know this is a rant and I know it shouldn't matter. But today it does. I've rung 4 departments and convinced/cajoled/become hysterical at various people to try get info about their stupid waiting lists and their stupid criteria. All because their service is shite. DONT start on me about one part of the service I do not actually want.
Apologies for the length. No one gets it do they?
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SOooo oversensitive today, GP made me cry. Am I loosing the plot?
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treedelivery · 24/09/2012 13:37
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