it has long been apparent that DS's development is severely delayed and 9 days ago he was diagnosed with ASD. It was no shock but I am heartbroken and scared for his future.
So over the couse of the last week we have been telling family and friends the news and every single one on them has said 'oh, but he must only have it mild' then they reel off a list of things he can do, so therefore in their opinion it's not a big deal. Or they give anecdotes of distant friends and relatives whos autistic child was like this, that or the other and start comparing him.
I then feel like I have to justify his diagnosis by reminding them of all he cannot do, it's just so dam depressing.
I want their support in the fight to get him all the help he needs. I want them to see how hard things are at times, to see my pain.
Sorry, just having a rant. It's all so fresh. I am a parent of a SN child and I feel like Im now a member of a club I never asked to join. And I feel so alone because I don't know any other SN parents in RL, and although my support network do care they just don't really have a clue.
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Shakirasma · 08/10/2011 23:36
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