hi, I've posted over the years a bout ds2, who has asd, he's 12. He's been out of school for two years now after his placement broke down, HUGE anxiety issues, and he's very controlling, although it's also been great for him to be at home in some ways; he's certainly more articulate and really very verbal now.Â
I've been battling/ struggling/ pleading with the LEA, all the usual, massive multidisciplinary meetings, endless phone calls, letters etc, and over the last few months they've provided some outreach support from a local sld/ complex/ profound needs school (I think that's the profile) which has been amazing, the lovely teacher and support staff have now managed to get to the point where he goes into the school at 3.30 till 5.30 a couple of days a week, which is a massive advance, and he really looks forward to it and has even talked about going more often. But he doesn't spend time with the children. Where he's at in his own development means that at the moment he'd struggle to see non verbal children as a peer group, as many of the kids there are, of course.
BUT... The school and his teacher, and camhs, and every professional say categorically it's the wrong school for him. Â He's got a lot of anxiety,he's super controlling, but these days he'd be described as pretty high functioning ( don't really like that term). The school has refused to be named an an appropriate placement on his statement. But the mld schools are massively over subscribed, no chance of a place, apparently. Plus he does need an enormous amount of support.
So we've started the ed tribunal process, and have been advised that st Mary's Wrestwood trust in bexhill or LVS in hassocks might be appropriate. And we really have to choose one to name on our appeal. I've been to st Mary's, loved it, and am going to see LVS today. Solicitor has said that the trouble with st Mary's is it's not autism specialist, and so she's known appeals to fail. And I've heard that LVS has a 'for employment' approach  in late secondary with links to an agricultural college, which is brilliant, but ds HATES going out and doing stuff outside, and I'm worried that if lots of the kids are coming and going it might feel a bit disruptive and disjointed IYSWIM?
Does any one have experience of either school? I know you can't tell me what to choose, but especially after two years of being at home with my lovely but honestly quite challenging ds I'm knackered and confused and I so don't want to get this wrong, because I think we and he will prob only get one chance.
Thanks if you've got this far....!
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St Mary's Wrestwood or LVS, anyone with experience of either?
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