Was it me that caused ds' learning disabilities? I didn't know I was pregnant when at least twice during week 4 to 5 in early pregnancy I shared a bottle a wine with dh. Once I tested positive (at approx week five) I had the occassional half glass (once a week maybe).
Professionals have never asked me if I drank in pregnancy. I'm too frightened to bring it up myself but having googled foetal alcohol syndrome ds could fit the profile. he is small, has a small head and is smoothed rather than ridged between nose and lip. He has learning disabilities, asd and adhd. he is gorgeous and the love of my life.
he is under investigation with genetics team for damage to x chromosome not sure whether that makes FAS more or less likely.
I have namechanged as I feel so frightened about this - it is really eating me up inside.
Not really sure what I'm asking actually - just needed to write it down and acknowledge my fears
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Did I cause ds' learning disabilities?
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messydeskmessymind · 19/09/2011 12:37
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