I've just caught DD telling DS that if he didn't go into the garden and play, she'd tell the world he wets himself. She run through the people near by who would hear her, then told him she wouldn't get told off because it was true.
She turned round and saw me, then acted innocently and when I told her to go to her bedroom she asked why? I told her she knew why and she laughed and said yes, walked into her bedroom and sat on her bed with her back to me.
I'm not even furious, just really saddened that DSs own sister is sooo cruel.
Everyone keeps telling me she's okay but a basic run down.
Doesn't do as she's told, is rude, abrupt, doesn't take into consideration others, is bossy and wants things her own way, it very messy - a trail of destruction whereever she's been. Shes 10 and needs reminding to wash/brush teeth etc, hates sensory input - hates cuddles, touching etc. I've tried being positive and giving lots of attention which is okay, but one minute bit of negativety and the world explodes.
Yet, most of this is only with us and not when in company of others! School have noted shes quiet, and doesn't like things that she doesn't have control in but other than that haven't noted anything out of the ordinary. She has no friends, they also think she's bossy and ridicule her.
I want to help her but don't know what to do!? With DS, I knew there was something wrong, had backing from the school and even knew what the DX was from reading but everything I have here is just sooo 'everything'
Any thoughts, even if its just to slap me and tell me to pull myself together
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CinnamonPretzel · 21/08/2011 13:54
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