My cousin has just found out that the baby she is expecting has Down's syndrome.
She and her husband are trying to get their heads round it all but I'm really worried about my cousin. We spoke this afternoon and she sounded so down. She said she feels like her life is over, that she'll have to spend the rest of her days looking after him and she's not sure she can do it. She said she'd even been thinking about abortion. I really don't know what to say to her, how to support her. I think she is still in shock tbh.
How do I help her to see that her life isn't over, it's just going to be different than she expected. How do you get your head round knowing your child is going to be dependent on you forever? Does everyone go through similar feelings?
Any other advice on how I can support her would be really welcome.
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Memoo · 16/08/2011 22:13
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