Yesterday DH has announced that he has been seeing someone else and that they intend to make a life together. This came as a complete shock - DH says I have neglected him, that all I can talk or think about is DS (5, dx of ASD), that when he (DH) was extremely stressed because I guess of this whole ASD situation, I told him to pull himself together because DS has to be our priority. The other, older, woman has time for him (no kids), values him, listens to him and they have shared interests. Whatever, he's probably right and this is all my fault.
My real concern right now is, if it comes to it, how the hell do I explain this to DS? He's a sunny, happy child, who loves both of us to bits, and is keen to do things with mummy and daddy. His language is coming along, but there is no way at present he can grasp the concept of mummy and daddy love you very much, but. Should I just not tell him anything right now, and try to keep his routine as if nothing had happened? Even if DH moves out, it would be very close to here.
Has anyone here been in a similar sort of mess before? Thanks - I'm trying to stay calm.
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sc13 · 13/08/2011 20:28
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