I've recently realised that Ds2 (8, severe autism) always looks at me to check my reaction when he is doing something I've told him not to do. So, for example, if I tell him not go on the trampoline, he'll walk towards it but keeps turning back and grinning at me. He also does it when he THINKS I'm going to tell him not to do something. For example, we were at the beach earlier this week and he started to walk towards the sea. Normally I wouldnt let him go on his own, but I was sitting very near the sea's edge. He kept turning and looking until I said several times ' It's OK DS, you can go'. Once he was sitting in the sea, he kept turning round, looking at me and laughing as the waves broke around him.
I thought that this kind of referencing of other people was unusual in severely autistic children? Or am I wrong?
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does your autistic child refer to you to check behaviour?
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