Ds is 3.5 and has terrible seperation anxiety. He has been going to a childminder for two years and still cries and gets upset when we leave him. I have tried all sorts, staying for half an hour each time, just leaving him. Has been going to a new preschool recently as well and is doing the same. Have tried telling him in advance he is going (big no no, cries all morning, 4am til 9am) or not telling him and springing it on him (slightly better)
If childminder and I start talking to each other he gets upset and avoids eye contact and seems cross. He will not talk to either of us, almost as if he cant cope with me being where the cm normally is, or both of us together.
Once i leave him at cm or preschool he is fine but after two years of sobbing and asking me not to leave him im starting to feel like we need to make some progress.
On the way to preschool he tells me he is worried the teachers will talk to him or pick him up.
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Any tips for seperation anxiety at childcare. Its been going on for years!
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smugtandemfeeder · 04/08/2011 19:45
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