I have a friend whos son is at SS who is ADHD , hypermobile, asthmatic, she also has another dc who im sure is just naughty she claims is ASD but has no dx and is at a BESD school , it angers me because although shes a friend ive no idea why shes claiming hes ASD to everyone and IS making excuses for his awful behaviour, it riles me as ive known them a long time my own DC is ASD , he shows no traits and ive looed after him for her... am i being mean its just its so hard to get a dx , i know them very well but i know some dcs show certain behaviours only at home and not at school he has not had an ADOS as he didnt get past the paed stage / other assesments hes now 16 and so obnoxious when i argued with her over something the other day she put things on FB about my son saying people in glass houses, ive no idea why she brought my son into the argument as we didnt argue about our dcs but i had told her previously about him being rude to me, and she took offence. as a parent of a dc with ASD i still tell my dc if i think hes out of order reguardless of him being autistic (hes 11), seems she thins its ok if your really rude as long as youve a 'problem' am i wrong or should we still TRY even if on deaf ears quite often as dc needs lots and lots of overl earning ,to still tell our dcs if they do / or say something they shouldnt.
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