Apparently its all my fault, ds that is. Apparently there is nothing wrong with him and I'm am neurotic. His limp is a behaviour brought on by me. This has been deduced because he's not complaining of pain. Right. Well he doesn't complain of pain. He didn't complain about broken arms for gods sake. He was still using the broken arm on both occassions. His pain responses are completely haywire. Even in there he glanced against something and it was like the world had ended, clearly demonstating that he doesn't respond to pain normally. His horrendous and plainly strange behaviour, which he was demonstrating in the consultation, is brought on by my neurotic worries. I am apparently being obstructive to communication between the paeds and CAMHS. I don't know how because there is only so many times I can ask CAMHS if they have contacted the paeds. I offered him the CAMHS phone number and he said no! The sleep problems are normal. He shouldn't be having all these assessments by camhs because there is nothing wrong with him and it all in my imagination. I said that we've thought for a long time there is more to him than just a deaf child and camhs are agreeing and he said "is that you saying that or have camhs actually said that theres more going on". To which I said camhs said that theres more going on to which he rolled his eyes.
It was horrible. ds is getting no investigation into why he's limping. Any other child would have been investigated. I have been directly accused of making up ds's problems and causing his behaviours. I have been directly accused of being obstructive. His mode of questioning was so aggressive it was horrible. I can't stop crying now. All I want is ds sorted. He was there being just plain strange and its all either in my imagination or brought on by me being neurotic. Yet camhs catagorically said yesterday that I'm not neurotic and I'm not imagining things and there are things wrong.
Dh says we should write an email to camhs telling them to contact the paeds asap and explaining why. He also says we should complain about this consultation. But I can't because I know they'll use it against me.
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Its all my fault and I'm making it all up
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